For those of us who grew up in homes where we could not develop a healthy sense of closeness, we may find that we struggle in feeling close and safe in relationships. This original wound may be further magnified when we go out into the world, not sure how to protect ourselves from danger in a way that also allows safe people in. It is not always easy to develop a healthy sense of #boundaries if we did not have a healthy caregiver, family of origin, or a world/society to guide